If you have to change to be accepted by the people around you your surrounding yourself with the wrong people.
I found this out the hard way recently, I was surrounding myself with the wrong people who were commenting on my dress sense and the things I wear, my moustache for example, making little digs “as a joke” I even shaved the moustache off to try and fit in but in the end I ended up changing who I was surrounding myself with and it has made me so much happier.